What Do Your Fetishes Say About You?

Sexual fetishes are alive and well in the gay community, but we’ve managed to make them a bit more creative. I myself have been known to dabble in a bit of role-playing myself, and honey I’ve never been so free. My man doesn’t have a problem with it either.

First things first, fetishes are different from fantasies. Most are physical rather than imaginary, which only exist in our heads. Fetishes can be touched, felt, smelled and realized much more easily. More interestingly, they’re also likely linked to a childhood memory and can even act as a window to our psychological mindset. Here are a few that might tickle your fancy. Check and see if yours made the list:

#1 feet

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The feet are interesting. We walk, run, and work on them all day long, yet, we’re able to dress them up and display a kind of class system. You might be surprised that areas in our brains associated with genitalia and feet are adjacent to each other in its body image map. Sigmund Freud once said that people sexualize feet because they resemble penises, however, scientists have discovered that a lot of people’s brains are cross-wired between the foot and genital parts. This is why many of us love to have our toes sucked.

Most people are either black or white when it comes to feet. While some love them, others hate them just as much. But according to Academic studies, feet and foot accessories are the most fetishized of all non-genital body parts and objects – so you’re not alone.

Even if a lot of it has to do with physiological association, much of it also has to do with worship. In the old days, servants used to wash the feet of their masters. The foot is usually the first stop we make on our way to worshipping our man’s body. It’s an easy way to demonstrate our reverence and surrender to him. You love to please, and even more so, to watch the results of your efforts. Perhaps this kind of mindset translates into your every day life. Do you gain tremendous happiness by watching other people enjoy the works of your labor?

#2 gothic toys

I have to say, there’s something hot about having sex like pagan gods. Candles, coffins, masks, biting, handcuffs, sensual torture and everything else exist on different areas of the spectrum. Some people are clean, while others are willing to dive head first into experimentation.

You definitely have a huge imagination. Even vanilla things like putting on a mask and getting handcuffed to a bed might say wonders about where your mind is. You don’t like to play by the rules. It’s not sex or bodies that turn you on so much as the adrenaline, thrill, and above all, the anticipation. This is the root of your perspective on everything.

You’re an observer. You’re a listener. You see the world a bit crookedly, but that’s the best part about you – I’m sure everyone else will say the same thing. If you set your mind on something, you’ll probably get it because you do it your way. It’s the rush you live for. You were probably the first one to break the rules in high school, not just that, but try and convince other people to do the same. It’s gotten you pretty far in life so far, and the best part is, whenever you’re reaching the end you can say that you’ve experienced it all. And that’s something to be proud of.

#3 “furries” or “plushies”

There are lots of people who dress up like animals and seek out other like-minded (and like-dressed) people to play with. It’s known as ursusagalmatophilia, and it’s super popular nowadays. Therapists have said that this kind of fetish is based on people who like to anthropomorphize animals and ascribe them with human qualities, generally cute qualities.

Not to be confused with zoophilia (sexual attraction to animals), ursusagalmatophilia is generally linked with the need to feel better about yourself, while also making other people feel happy. Who wouldn’t get a smile from someone on the street when they’re dressed as a chicken or unicorn? Underneath the smiles, however, might be a desire to be exactly what the costume represents: acceptance.

Chances are, the costume is a tool for you to feel better about your body, your potential, and everything else society associates our value upon. While we get our fix outside the costumes, perhaps we ought to be focusing on changing our mood without it. It’s great to dress up and give people joy, don’t get me wrong, but never should you let it become the baseline of your self-worth.

#4 exhibitionism

Sex in public is always going to be in the back one’s mind. It’s vulnerable, exciting, adrenaline-rushed, and against the law – all of which make us want to do it even more. Being observed by the world can be a turn on. It’s as if we’re saying “Look, but don’t touch! Aren’t I desirable?” It seemingly boosts our esteem at times, and can arouse more than just excitement; but in a way, it’s also a silent protest.

Your life is about making statements, being proud, and trying to prove yourself –at least a fearless effort. The feeling of exhibitionism, in some ways, is related to a need to feel empowered. Achieving something as taboo as public sex without getting caught makes you feel like you can do anything, and that’s fabulous. Never lose that side of you – it’s the side that ain’t afraid of taking risks, and trust me when I say that’s something we all need a bit more of.

#5 food sex

Human beings have had the same mindset since the beginning of creation: a main goal throughout the day is to feed ourselves. We’re also one of the only species on the planet that has sex for pleasure (dolphins are another). However, food’s purpose is no longer to feed our stomachs, but rather to tickle our senses. The combo of both is like a circus to our brains.

You’re a huge believer in chance and intuition. Most likely, you listen to your gut more often than anyone else in your immediate circle of friends. If it feels good, looks good, and gives the right signs, you’re probably going to go for it. And trust me, people notice. They like having you around because you remind them what it’s like to be human and to feel things. Never let that go!

#6 water sports

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People tend to cringe whenever they imagine someone peeing on them. It’s incredibly demeaning (seemingly) and totally out there we rarely take it seriously. The truth is there are countless of men who fantasize about marking their territory (so to speak) on man. We forget human beings are animals. We’re obviously much more intelligent, but there is an innate sense of ownership all animals in the animal kingdom use. For some, they battle with each other to separate the big boys from the small; for us, we have written contracts and titles.

The thing is, once it happens you can’t take it back. A person getting peed on isn’t going to scream it from the mountaintops that they were just urinated on by a stranger in the park (or something); it most likely stays a very well kept secret – this is where the allure comes from.

You’re probably the kind of person who respects order and organization. You don’t like to waste time, and you thrive on being a leader. You like to boast and you probably waste no opportunity being the first to volunteer. Depending on your personality, people either love or hate you. But that doesn’t matter so long as they know who’s boss, right? Be careful though. The last thing you want to be is a dictator. They nearly always get brought down.

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Which Features Do Gay Guys Find Most Attractive?

Whether we like to admit it or not, gay guys are incredibly visual beings. We judge and estimate things based on what we see, hear and observe – even our potential partners.

Dating in the gay community is never easy, but it certainly helps to know which things we typically focus on first. Despite the artificial things, you might be surprised to find that not everything is exactly as it seems. Take a peek at what we’ve uncovered to be the sexiest features on a man.

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The Body Parts 

In a survey, physicality still proves to overrule most other attributes on a man when it comes to attraction.  Take a peek at the results:

  • 37% of gay male participants said a toned chest is the sexiest thing on a man

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  • 19% said 6 pack abs

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  • 18% said broad shoulders

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  • 16% said sculpted arms

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  • 7% said a perky butt

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  • 3% said firm thighs

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92% of gay men also believed that getting in shape would improve their dating lives while 90% admitted having tried to get in shape solely to look better for other men. Despite the facts however, 18% said getting in shape made no difference in their dating lives while 37% said it gave them the confidence to ask more people out.

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What Do Your Favorite Sex Positions Say About You?

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#1 MISSIONARY
There’s nothing wrong with playing by the rules, but are you letting it get in the way of taking chances? Are you always getting the same kind of drink when you go to a coffee shop? Are you always getting chicken when you go to a Chinese restaurant? Start taking risks. Sure missionary is a very intimate way of looking lovingly into the eyes of your partner, but hey, you already know what he looks like. It’s nice to let intimacy be the top priority in sex, but never let it become a barrier towards new discoveries. Chances are, you like to see the good things in life. Optimistic are you, eh? Well… be careful your optimism doesn’t turn into naivety.

#2 DOGGY STYLE
Let’s face it. We all like to be degraded from time to time, and doggy style is one of the positions that can do it without seeming too tasteless. Whether you’re on the bottom or the top, you love to exist on the far side of the spectrum – whichever case that may be. Not to mention, doggy style can be one of the most painful and pleasurable positions because whoever’s doing the topping is sure to fit ALL of himself inside, having the leverage to go however fast he wants. Sheesh! Whatever you do, you like to go all the way don’t you? You never half-ass anything in life, nor should you in bed. All that’s missing is a tramp stamp, well, another one at least.

#3 ROUGH HOUSING
Personally I love a man who pins me down, pulls my arms up above my head and keeps them there while he has his way with me. It’s hot, but it’s hard to tell if we’re having sex or if he’s trying to wrestle. If you’re the one doing the pinning, chances are you’re insecure about your intellect, but not about your body. This ultimately creates a need to try and impress whoever you’re with. On the other hand, it may be a power trip – an attempt to show how manly you can be. Either way you want to be the boss because you’re probably not the “boss” in your daily life, so you’re taking the opportunity now. But who cares, as long as you’re committed, pin away. Dear god. Pin away.

#4 MAN ON TOP
Depending on whether you’re riding the bull or not says a lot about how you view the world. Do you believe in hard work or not? If you’re the one pulling up a sweat doing that power bottom thang you do, that’s some heavy devotion. But if you’re lying on your back, sure the view might be nice, but help a brother out from time to time! Are you used to having everything being handed to you on a silver platter? It’s clear where the balance of the relationship is. Don’t get me wrong, I love to ride my bull all night long – but I always expect to get something in return. My sweat don’t come free.

#5 MIRROR SEX
You like to look at yourself not just to see if you’re doing it right, but also… you look damn good. Maybe you should be having sex with yourself then. Don’t get me wrong, this isn’t a bad thing at all. In fact I think it’s quite a turn on, but let’s face it, you want to see what your ass looks like when it’s spread eagle. You probably take it to other levels too like role play, dirty outfits and, dare I say, sex taping. You love to spend your paycheck on hair product and private training sessions, don’t ya? Nothing wrong with that, but make sure you don’t lose track of everything else. Like the guy you’re having sex with… remember him? Yeah.

#6 SEX STANDING UP
You’re a competitive person aren’t you? You like to show off don’t you? You want everyone to think you know what you’re doing… don’t you? Well when you find a partner that’s your ultimate match, it’s all up from there. Literally. There’s nothing like combining aerobics, weight lifting, yoga, and penetration all in one sexcapade. There are so many options to choose from, but don’t worry, you have all the time in the world. You’re a free spirit so you probably aren’t worried anyway. You’re too busy planning on your next rock climbing adventure or trip to Fire Island.

#7 SPOONING SEX
Spooning does wonders for your self-esteem and anxiety. Anything relating to a fetal position is always going to make you feel warm and fuzzy inside. It doesn’t matter if you’re on top or bottom, spooning can not only be the most comfortable position ever, it can be the most intimate. You want to be close, you want to smell each other, you want the power of friction and contact that nothing else gives, but it also can be a power game. Big spoon vs. little spoon can turn into a psychological competition, but don’t worry, it seldom plays out.

 

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